If you love someone for who they could be, you’re heading for trouble. Having someone live up to their potential is not your responsibility and beyond the realm of your control. Love someone...
Why You Should Stop Trying To Make Other People Happy.
No matter how much you love someone, the happiness of someone other than yourself is NOT your responsibility. Someone else’s happiness is beyond the realm of your control and any energy spend...
How To Win An Argument While Keeping The Relationship Intact.
The secret to winning an argument that can potentially damage a long-term relationship, is letting go of the need to win the argument. Don’t argue to win, argue to make progress. No long-term...
Just Be Yourself: The Worst Advice Ever Given?
Just be yourself… It’s probably one of the worst well-intended pieces of advice out there. For me personally, it seemed easy enough to be myself when I was a kid, but things changed...
On Finding True Love.
When looking for true love, most people look outwards. Instead, try to look for love inwards, first. How can you expect to find your soul mate, when your soul is in conflict with who you are as a...