Success begins with failure. Sometimes… a LOT of failure. Don’t be too fast to jump ship. You might miss out on something beautiful on the other side of the challenges that you’re...
Jumping Ship.
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To Be Empathetic Is To Stop Problem Solving.
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When someone shares their problems with you, find out whether they’re looking for a solution or a listening ear. Often, when people share their problems, they’re well aware of the...
The #1 Responsibility When In A Romantic Relationship.
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The number one responsibility in a romantic relationship is NOT to make your partner happy. You won’t be able to, no matter how hard you try. Someone else’s happiness is out of your...
Thriving Romantic Relationships Are Not Built On Giving & Taking.
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The two questions that should be central in any romantic relationship are… How can I contribute to make this person happy?How can I contribute to make this relationship more meaningful? Buying...
Disney Lied. Why ‘Love At First Sight’ Seldom Has A Happy Ending.
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We all remember those scenes from the Disney movies where the prince lays his eyes on the beauty of the princess (or vice versa) and he instantly falls in love. ‘Magical! That’s how love...
The Eyes Of The Beast: How To Deal With Conflict.
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When conflict arises, it’s often best to face it as soon you get the opportunity. Conflict tends to multiply if you walk away from it. Look the beast in the eye, or let it breed and get bitten...
The Most Important Life Decision.
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‘Find someone who puts wind in your sails.’ This small bit of wisdom is not only THE key for successful long term relationships of all kinds, it is also one of the most important life decisions...
When You Love Someone For Who They Could Be.
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If you love someone for who they could be, you’re heading for trouble. Having someone live up to their potential is not your responsibility and beyond the realm of your control. Love someone...
Why You Should Stop Trying To Make Other People Happy.
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No matter how much you love someone, the happiness of someone other than yourself is NOT your responsibility. Someone else’s happiness is beyond the realm of your control and any energy spend...
How To Win An Argument While Keeping The Relationship Intact.
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The secret to winning an argument that can potentially damage a long-term relationship, is letting go of the need to win the argument. Don’t argue to win, argue to make progress. No long-term...